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JANUARY 2008   |   Issue #32
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Make Sure You Understand ALL the Issues

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The Person Who Speaks First Loses

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The Person Who Speaks First Loses

Eventually, every negotiation comes down to that delicate time when serious proposals are introduced and meaningful concessions are asked for and offered. When this time arrives, the skillful negotiator will know when to speak and when to be silent. The best time to be silent is when you have made a serious offer or asked for an important concession, and now it is the other sides turn to respond. This can be a socially awkward moment, especially if your request is something major which stretches the other party beyond their comfort zone. Too often, as the person who makes the request senses the tension building, he will break the ice by making a clever remark or, even worse, he will somehow qualify or soften the request to make the other party more comfortable. DONT DO THIS. The other side needs to remain uncomfortable for the time being, until they decide how to respond to your request. If you break the ice, you will let them off the hook and end up leaving money on the table that could have been yours if you had just kept quiet.

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Make Sure You Understand ALL the Issues

By James A Baker Chairman Baker Communications January 2008

The heart of any negotiation is the set of issues that must be discussed, traded and/or resolved in order to come to a satisfactory agreement. Usually, these issues are initially laid out as part of the negotiation agenda (which can either be formally stipulated in a meeting document or casually addressed verbally, depending on the type of negotiation).

The important thing to remember here is that a) the agenda itself is usually a product of a brief negotiation, and b) the agenda is subject to renegotiation as the process unfolds, as new issues and ideas are put on the table during the flow of the negotiation. Changes in structure or strategy often lead to adding, reprioritizing or eliminating issues as both parties search for the best set of components to define a satisfactory resolution.

One of the most important aspects of preparing the agenda is to be aware of who is preparing it. This person will structure the agenda in a way that makes sense to them, based on the issues that are important to them. However, obviously, this doesnt mean the agenda will address everything that is important to you. Dont ever agree to an agenda unless there is a place on it to address your issues, too.

Another mistake that ineffective negotiators make is only negotiating the issues that are important to launch the project under discussion. It is well and good to gain as much positive momentum during a negotiation, but this often leads to downplaying questions that need to be addressed should the deal later break down. One year from now, if you should discover that the deal negotiated has big problems, will you have adequate remedies to resolve the situation? During your preparation phase, be sure and brainstorm possible sources of breakdown and conflict that could arise down the road, and include these issues on the agenda to discuss now...

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