

By James A. Baker
Founder and Chairman
Baker CommunicationsÂ
October 2003
If you are a pilot, you know the necessity and the value of a pre-flight check list; you can’t afford to risk leaving the ground until you are certain that everything is in order. Well, it is pretty much the same when preparing for a negotiation; you can’t afford to start a negotiation until you have gone over your own pre-negotiation check list. This list is something you develop during the Preparation Phase of the negotiation process (remember, the five phases of negotiation are Prepare, Discuss, Propose, Bargain and Evaluate). Of the five phases, the Preparation phase is by far the most important. Most people assume that Bargaining is the most important phase, but trust me on this, if you fail to thoroughly prepare, you are probably going to leave money on the table during the bargaining phase.
The pre-negotiation check list is a quick way to run through all the decisions you need to make and the strategies you need to develop to be fully prepared to negotiate. There are a lot of factors on this list, but you need to cover them all before you sit down at the negotiating table. Your list should cover:
Until you have good answers to all these questions, you are not ready to negotiate. Don’t think you can go in, “trust your instincts,” do what you have always done, and come away with a big success. As Pasteur once said, “Chance favors the prepared mind.” The same thing is true if you want to become a successful negotiator.
Negotiation Quick Tip – Don’t Say “NO” Unless You Want to Slam the Door
To riff on a phrase Otto von Bismarck originally used in referece to politics, “Negotiation is the art of the possible.” It is inevitable that when parties come together to negotiate something, they will start out some distance apart on certain issues. Never assume that this opening distance represents an insurmountable obstacle, and by all means, never say “NO” unless you want to shut down the conversation altogether. The best way to address an impossible request is to provide a response outlining what is possible for you. For example, “I appreciate your opening salary offer, but since there is going to be significant overtime required for which I would not receive additional compensation, the base salary will need to be 15% higher than you have suggested.” Now, the door is still open to work out a deal.
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